Aure's Notes
2 min readApr 14, 2023

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Thanks for your comment, you make a good point.

High-status, fame, and money aren't enough for a girl to fall in love with a guy.

If the guy is as hot as Ryan Gosling but as cold as a stone, she won't even look at him. Women fall in love with LMS guys not because of LMS, but because of the way guys behave BECAUSE they have LMS.

This is why it's good to make sh*t loads of money. It naturally makes you more confident.

The problem of the early PUAs with their routines etc is that love, when it happened, was "forced". The girl fell in love artificially, not organically, because the connection did not exist (these guys weren't feeling anything).

I think the best way to go about it for anyone who isn't natural is to use all of the knowledge from all of the schools.

1. Learn game (pua)

2. Learn about women's nature (red pill)

3. Become high-value (LMS)

4. Choose a life that excites you AND dedicate time to going out talking to women (it's not "needy" like you could read on the internet).

5. Get in touch with your feelings. For most guys, this means integrate your shadow (article coming up on the topic). That point is the most important one. It's what Mark Manson was trying to convey in Models but he did a terrible job. I suspect he himself didn't know what he was talking about. No wonder he's been writing the same stuff for 15 years, but I digress.

True, organic love happens as a result of a genuine connection, but you also need some basics (no one falls in love with a hobo).

This is why the whole thing is so confusing. Each school is too ideological and say "what I teach is right and what they teach is wrong" while the truth is "what I teach is right and what they teach is ALSO RIGHT".

I'll give you one more piece I have just thought of.

1. The dangers of PUA is to become a fake "high-energy, positive person" like Owen Cook and the whole RSD thing did.

2. The danger of the red pill is to hate women as the red pill does not consider all of the good, positive things women bring into your life (you have more positive than negative, otherwise people wouldnt be dating).

3. The danger of LMS is that it completely disregards the importance of feelings and human connection, transforming relationships into marketing.

4. The danger of the "be on your path" is that these people are too busy being on their path and dont go out to meet women anymore. Sadly, no girl will magically appear in your bedroom while you're building a company.

Hope that answers your question!

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