Women are ascendant (something to celebrate), while young men are struggling. There has never been a cohort that’s fallen further, faster than young men living in Western democracies. The percentage of young men aged 20 to 24 who are neither in school nor working has tripled since 1980. Workforce participation among men has fallen below 90%, while median hourly wages are $3 less per hour, adjusted for inflation, than they were in 1970. This is deadly; over the past 20 years, America’s incremental deaths of despair totaled 414,000, exceeding the 407,000 Americans killed in World War II. It’s also a mating crisis, as women traditionally mate horizontally and up socioeconomically, whereas men mate horizontally and down. When the pool of horizontal-and-up young men shrinks, there are fewer mating opportunities. And without the guardrails of a relationship, young men behave as if they have … no guardrails.
