These articles are sad and they are not ok.

Pretending to be happy single would be like saying "Drunk, no problem: the art of being a happily alcoholic". It's neither happy no ok.

Singlehood isn't human. Despite everything people like to tell themselves, we're wired to date, have a partner, and raise children. Everyone knows that deep inside themselves.

Screaming and writing on the internet that you're ok being single won't make it so.

Fortunately, it's not too late, even after a long marriage and a divorce.

Get back out there and find yourself a companion.

You're not "choosing to be single".

You're giving up finding somebody.